Question: Why do guys push you away when they love you?

Some people cant help but push their partners away because of a fear of intimacy. Sometimes this is because they had a tough upbringing, and find it difficult to connect with people. Others may have been through trauma later on, such as an abusive relationship.

Why would someone push away someone they love?

Pushing people away is one way of avoiding intimacy. In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense mechanism for people afraid of getting hurt in relationships. The thought of a close intimate relationship makes you uncomfortable, so you do what you can to avoid intimacy as a means of self-preservation.

Why do guys push you away when they are stressed?

A common reason why men need space or start to pull away is because theyre really stressed out. For example, men who are stressed out become more self-centered, want to get back into their own space and deal with it on their own.

Why do Avoidants push you away?

Individuals with fearful-avoidant attachment push people away due to an intense fear of rejection. In this case, the act of pushing people away is done out of fear and not because of trying to maintain independence. They desperately want to feel connected but have a hard time trusting others.

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